However... they continue to amaze me with their vitriolic posts and comments. These are the so called people who love God and Jesus and want to take this country back to the lord ... just spew vitriol on anyone who disagrees with them! name calling.
I'm going to continue to resist but reading a couple of good ol boy blogs just... I can not for the life of me understand why men feel justified in referring to women as vermin or idiots or filth or sluts or prostitutes when we are simply exercising OUR first amendment rights. I don't understand the mindset that feels the need to be mean spirited, period. Disagree ... okay ... but the vile name calling?
Wouldn't you think an educated or caring person would simply state... I believe you're wrong and here is why I believe such. But noooooo.... it's got to be you vermin! pond scum! how dare you think that way or disagree with me... the 'my way or the highway' mentality. simply dangerous.
Misogynists and chauvinist pigs are still around... after all these years - especially in my age group. man oh man I have unsubscribed to a couple of blogs. I just don't need that in my world. Too frustrating to try and understand especially after living through the dark ages of the 50s and 60s when women were still considered nonpeople. Seems a lot of men are still upset that THEY gave us the vote... women have been downright uppity ever since.
This says copyright --- hope it's okay to post this... thought it was right on. This Rush and Fluke firestorm is just something else. ok all right already ... but the people taking sides with this... just absolutely amaze me!
Will they at least read her testimony? Can they just read and understand about socialism ... my God.. Obama's a socialist and Ms. Fluke is a socialist and they'll be damned if their rights are going to be taken away by the likes of these vermin!
I wrote a response to one of these blogs but then decided against it... it would just start a getting on each other's blog and ranting... I don't want that. I enjoy just coming here and feeling rather private on my public blog... Haa?
Rainy day today. I have lots of stuff I needed/need to do but again... my lazy ass won out. I do enjoy a day of rain. I don't like a steady day after day type thing. But there's just something cozy about a nice rainy day and being inside all warm with lots of terrible bad awful things to eat.
I just made some cinnamon toast and peeled a good ol orange... nice combination. Making a bit of extra coffee. About to watch Ellen.. she generally cheers me up... I DVRd the Downton Abbey series and plan on watching a few episodes of that while ... thinking...
Me and my thinking always need company. This ADD mindset is quite something. Hahaaa.. sometimes I enjoy it but other times I just wish I could just enjoy going after something and not get distracted on the way there and do 97 other things without nary a one getting finalized ... BUT then there's always next time...
Being me is not easy... but I persevere.
How about Joan singing about a bluebird for happiness...
I was walking down the road, not caring much where I was going
A heavy pack upon my back, worldly goods within a sack of loneliness
When fluttered by this bird of blue, he said I´ll tell you what I´ll do
Since you seem to be so sad, I will try and be your glad...
bluebird of happiness
And he goes flying, far over the ocean blue,
found the places, I am not known to.
I decided to follow him, my thoughts have faded dim since then
blown foggy by the wind paced, passing shore to shore we race,
moved from place to place
The moon is hot, the stars are cold. I´ve been there, that's how I know
I´ve touched the desert sunsets cold
placed it of the melted snows of Kilimanjaro
And he goes flying, far over the ocean blue,
found the places, I am not known to.
I´ll follow that bird until he dies and when he does then so will I,
I know I´ll never be the same, Life to me is bound to change
when that ends the chase
I lift his body from the sea, let him dry the trade wind breeze
find some Merry Christmas news, grabbed them up and giving to you
my bluebird of happiness
And he goes flying, far over the ocean blue,
found the places, I am not known to.
Good for you Carolyn for dropping those blogs. I don't get mixed up in too much controversy online. It's much like road rage. Life is too short to waste it on things that we have no control on like narrow minded people.
ReplyDeleteIt's not raining here but it sounds like rain as the snow is melting and dripping off the roof. It was warm and sunny today and the snow went down a lot but we still have plenty left. It finally felt like spring today.
I'm finished painting the bathroom ceiling and and two coats of paint on the walls but there are still the shelves and trim to paint. I've got to sand the vanity. Oh Lord, it's a never ending job. My husband is so busy at the farm that he doesn't have time to put in the new electrical fixtures etc.
Good night Carolyn. Hugs. JB
oh, good night, Julia ... ;)
ReplyDeleteIt is like road rage... get outta my face you @#$%X^% ... ridiculous...
What will you do when you finish this project? You just don't seem the type to have only fun projects to do like your quilting and such...
You'll find another back breaking thing to do! Did you sell all your calves?
Sweet dreams ;)
Hugs....
Peanut butter on toast, with marmalaide...that's pretty close to what you had...and that's what I like to have! Nasty awful stuff, indeed!
ReplyDeleteHaaaa… I was just reading your blog. I'd love to go to Tebo's… I haven't been to Portland since the early 80s. I loved it there. Well, except for the daily rain … but always got a chuckle out of the T-shirt slogan… If the Rain is Warm, It Must be August…
ReplyDeletemarmalade? orange? oh, man. and Well? I finally succumbed to making some chocolate pudding… AND while it was warm? … poured it over some vanilla ice cream.
I am dead.
Thanks for stopping by!
I'll work on my childhood Memory rug to relax and I'll be working in the garden I imagine, cutting the lawn, weeding, looking at the wee wiggly creatures on the ground.
ReplyDeleteI'll have to post a picture of my biceps on my blog just for fun one of these days.
I still have my calves. I sold 5 little bulls last month when they were about one week old. We had a 5 in a row. I'm weaning 4 calves before I go on my three days vacation to the Maritime Fiber Art Retreat in Nova Scotia with my daughter and her friend.
JB
aw, childhood memory rug? I saw your rugs at the bottom of your blog … love the colors! … what fun that must be. I don't like to do tedious stuff like cross stitch - knitting and such … but well? rug making seems… nah… too much todoing.
ReplyDeleteI like just string a bead on a wire or ribbon and proclaiming it an earring… HAhaaaa…
your biceps? I had a pal who was about 5'1" and weighed approximately 90 to 95 lbs depending on whether she was hanging with me or not … I am 5'4" and weighed at that time any where from 122-140 - depending on where I was hanging around….
She always helped me move… the woman could pick up my TV -- well? back then they were big! I had a portable TV that was huge! I was struggling with it --- she shoved me out of the way and PICKED it up! I just couldn't believe her…. She always wore sleeves because she was embarrassed of her biceps! I never really noticed them until she did something like this. Pure muscle!
She was unbelievable… little ol bitty thing and here I am --- Amazon woman and had the strength of a … hmmm -- not much!
In fact.. you two sound a great deal alike… she was always always doing something … some project… wore me out.
You're going on vacation?! yay! to Nova Scotia! oh, I've heard it is beautiful there!
You sold five baby bulls when they were a week old? well… what do they eat? … poor Mother cows… I guess it's 'the way' … The bulls are sold at a week old but the calves - female? - are kept until they're weaned? and YOU do that? no kidding.
You did read my Rocky post… I was so traumatized by that… I'm afraid I could never be a farmer. I'd never make any money keeping them all to myself…
I hope we sleep well tonight… I sure didn't last night… and don't really know why… and tonight with all this bad awful terrible food I've been eating today I probably won't tonight from feeling so damned guilty! … just finished a big ol bowl of warm chocolate pudding over vanilla ice cream… sigh
I'm telling ya… I'm dead….
I just don't read political or religious stuff. Who knows why some people hold extreme views, but I want no part of it.
ReplyDeleteHi Gypsy… yes, it's the extremists who always have to keep the potty stirred…. I know you remember John Wayne and the Indians… there were always some white men who wanted to blame Indians for a this or that… and start wars. They'd get dressed up in Indian attire and go rob a stagecoach or the army's payroll on the train… ooooo they loved robbing trains.
ReplyDeleteI think white men speak with forked tongues for the most part … especially the chauvinists and the wannabe chauvinists…. little dumplins
Hope you're feeling better! Remember----- You're happy, You're well, You're healthy, You're prosperous, You're pretty…. ;)
Funny, I just unsubscribed from an RV blog who was wading around gently in the Limbog. I used to like to jump into the fray; now I just want to not get that fray on my shoes.
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The Good Luck Duck
Never leave a comment on one of those blogs! I did it exactly once and the back-and-forth after that left me depressed for days, until I disengaged.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, I want to salute you for writing "downright uppity." I love that.
Carolyn, I love you too for writing so honestly, but I'm afraid if you'll be hurt. I do not react on anything political here on the blogs, because I get too upset, and if I start a discussion I might be the target of those fanatic religious persons, and I haven't got the nerves for it. I try to follow what's happening, I don't understand why some people are moving backwards in time, back from democracy. Stay away from the fanatics and the chauvinists, Carolyn, you'll be hurt. They are a waste of time - and they are so brain-washed that it is impossible to talk any sense to them. I once said a nice word in a thread,(not in this group of blogville), and I got a hole bucket of shit thrown into my face. It is so depressing.
ReplyDeleteHave a nice day in the rain. I love a rainy day.
Grethe ´)
For some people, anger is the only emotion that is accessible within themselves.
ReplyDeleteI choose to embrace Love and Happiness.
Roxanne… Limbog? Hahaaa… I tell ya… I get a kick out of one FB pal (childhood friend) … all she and her pals know to do is quote scripture… yesterday an obnoxious God hates liberals kinda post … one brave soul said … God loves liberals … and I did an atta boy …
ReplyDeleteThe response was nothing but a book and verse scripture… Ecclesiastes something something. My response was my highschool and the year I graduated.
This started a bit of humor and the people actually began to become a bit decent. The die hard -- OMG -- evangelical zealots just sit and hurumph and blow up… they truly can not think for themselves and continue with just scripture quotes.
My mantra and something that I hope her almost 2,000 'friends' glean from my comments is that pro-choice is not pro-abortion. The issue is women's rights. Your religion belongs in your home and your church - not in my uterus.
over and over and over --- regardless of what venom they spew… I just keep repeating that … I have already realized at least two women who are now not spewing venom … I call that progress. jeeeeeEEEZ women are so brainwashed by this mindset….
But blogs? nope … won't go there. That's really a person's space and I do respect that. I just won't visit.
You're right, Murr… I use Text Edit to write m'stuff … I just typed and typed and typed my frustration out and what I thought was a good response. I reread it several times … then just said… ridiculous … a person's blog is their space and they can write whatever steams their bean… I just unsubscribe …. not worth it.
ReplyDeleteI didn't erase the response I was going to publish and saw it this morning still in draft form… I reread it and deleted it.
It is futile to try and change an anal mindset --- especially if they are old and rather isolated … it's silly to respond. The commenters, however, were a bit shocking… that was what I was more upset with…. but then I ain't going to read their blogs any longer either … at least I wasn't subscribed to theirs just bookmarked.
Yes… uppity women and other minorities… just not acceptable.
Sometimes it's fun to engage these folk in a discourse --- but I like doing so in person….
I especially like to 'get into it' with someone who has walked up to me and asks if I have found Jesus… haa
G'morning, sweet Grethe ́ … I'm anxious to see where you will be walking next. I love going on your walks with you ;)
ReplyDeleteI don't understand why some people want to move backwards either… mind boggling.
The only thing I will get rankled over are women's rights and people who stereotype the South…
I reeeeally have to hold my tongue sometimes… it depends on the person. When a vile remark is made by a supposedly intelligent person …. they will get a response from me. If it's someone who is just an uneducated dipshit… obvious from their lifestyle … I try to ignore it because they probably won't get out and vote any way… just like to gritch and moan… and spew vitriol
We liberal thinking folk need to start standing up to these bullies. Our problem is that as liberals… we will fight for anyone's right to disagree with us!
Just maddening! Let's go for walk, Grethe ́… I'm going to go back and revisit your blog this morning … your beautiful countryside… so relaxing ;)
Very interesting, Wanderoke… I never thought of 'it' that way.
ReplyDelete"anger is the only emotion that is accessible within themselves."
sad isn't it.... scary
I think underneath all the rage is fear. It's really that simple. When I see people acting like that, calling people names, ranting about "them," whoever "they" are, I just think about how afraid they must be. As Buddha said, "Hatred never ceases by hatred, but by love alone is healed."
ReplyDeleteI hear the frustration and hurt and sadness in your "voice." I think the only way out of this great divide caused by so much fear, is compassion.
As for the weather, I'm happy to see sunshine today here in the rainy NW.
Goodnight Carolyn. It's WAY past my bed time, talk to you tomorrow. JB
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